It is sad the way this happens so much in so many different types of relationships. The worst is when the other person gets fed up and then turns it around to make you the ass hole, but some people are just stuck in their "own self preservation" and screw the next person. Maybe they should go get more counseling. I will say one thing I am very protective of the younger generation of my family. Eventually the truth comes out and people see through the fake act and bull shit.