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When a lady tells you that she wants more attention and she wants you to listen to her more...
You better wake up and realize that your lady deserves to be heard all of the time..If not, then
one day you might wake up with her out of your life and you'll wish you never made her feel
so alone while she was with you.

-Bryan Burden

A real gentleman will never raise his voice so loud or hit you in any way whenever he's mad. Guys who are violent have self-control issues and you don't want to get stuck with a man who's abusive and doesn't respect your womanhood.

If he’s not calling you, it’s because you are not on his mind. If he creates expectations for you, and then doesn’t follow through on little things, he will do same for big things. Be aware of this and realize that he’s okay with disappointing you. Don’t be with someone who doesn’t do what they say they’re going to do. If he’s choosing not to make a simple effort that would put you at ease and bring harmony to a recurring fight, then he doesn’t respect your feelings and needs. “Busy” is another word for “asshole.” “Asshole” is another word for the guy you’re dating. You deserve a phone call.”

― Greg Behrendt
He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys

WHEN A GIRL GIVES UP ON YOU, GOOD LUCK.

When she gives up on you, it's obvious.
1. She will not try to catch your attention.
2. She will not fight for you anymore.
3. She won't reply your message as quickly anymore.
4. She won't try to keep the conversation going anymore.
5. She will not care anymore.
6. She no longer get jealous.
7. She no longer care if you care or not anymore.
8. She no longer goes to your profile and whine to people about how happy you're, talking to other girls.
9. She will give up on trying to make you love her, because she finally realise that she deserves better.
10. And you will miss her. Miss the way she cared about you. Miss the way she loved you. And you have lost her.

And you will miss her.. miss the way she cared about you, miss the way she loved you, miss how she was always there when nobody else was. And you lost her. So don't take any girls for granted, if you love her, let her know before she gives up.

Treat your girl right, or sit back and watch someone else do it for you.

Life is hard enough as it is without choosing someone difficult to share it with.

If the guy you’re dating doesn’t seem to be completely into you, or you feel the need to start ‘figuring him out,’ please consider the glorious thought that he might just not be that into you. And then free yourself to go find someone that is.

― Greg Behrendt

There's no perfect relationship. It's how you accept the imperfections that makes it perfect.

No relationship is perfect.

No relationship is perfect. As much as you would want it to be perfect, it will never be perfect. It's always good before it gets bad, it's always easy before it gets hard, and it always feels perfect before it gets real. You'll always see the best in each other before you bring out the worst of each other. As the connection gets deeper and the attachment gets stronger, that's when you're gonna see just exactly how vulnerable you've made yourself to each other. That's when the flaws and faults start to show themselves. That's when the problems and differences start to settle in. This is where most people give up because now everything is too complicated or too difficult and that's when they try to find someone better, but the thing is even with someone better, it's never going to be perfect. It's not about being with someone better or having that perfect relationship, it's about knowing the value of what you have right in front of you and making it work despite the challenges it may bring. Sure, it feels amazing when you two get along and it feels miserable when you two argue, but the beauty in that is being able to always find your way back to each other when you're on the verge of losing one another because that goes to show that it's something worth fighting for and it's meant to be saved. So there might not such a thing as a perfect relationship, but a beautiful one? Yeah, those do exist because what's beautiful isn't always perfect, and it's something we all deserve.

It takes someone special to love a person who’s broken; someone who’s willing to look past all the cracks and fault lines to see the person the fragments form in their entirety… It takes someone with patience and a gentle spirit… someone who realizes that broken people may appear sharp and hostile, but are in fact fragile and need to be treated with care…

But most of all, it takes someone who’s brave to love a person who’s broken because they will hurt you – even if they don’t mean to… There will be times you will try to hold them but they’ll be too afraid to let you close… Their words will be the weapons they use to push you away and they’ll sting you like splinters get under your skin… But if you are brave enough to try… to try again… to keep trying until you break through those defenses, you will find that a broken person will love you unlike anyone else ever has.

Every fractured part of their personality will love you and reflect your love back at you a thousand fold. They’ll make you laugh, they’ll make you cry… they’ll be the biggest roller coaster of emotions you’ll ever know… but they’ll be worth it… so very worth it because their trust is worth its weight in gold… And with every part of themselves they uncover for you comes the knowledge that you are special… that you are their only one… that you are an explorer in an uncharted wilderness seeing a hidden treasure that nobody else has ever gotten close enough to see; that jewel of a smile that shines only for you…

~ Ranata Suzuki

I never wanna see you in my future as a stranger. We've built so much together. I never wanna watch you walk by me as if we never met. It will literally kill me inside. I'm so scared of losing you. Although we've made promises, I'm just scared that those promises won't mean much in the future. I don't know where we're heading. I'm just worried. We started off as strangers, and I'm really hoping we don't end as strangers.

My kind of relationship:
I love being in the type of relationship where you're totally comfortable around each other, and there's no pressure to act a certain way, there's no awkward moments, you can be weird and lazy when you're together, make fun of each other, tickle each other and then just laugh it off like you're best friends because you are. A relationship where you call each other nicknames and there is lots of laughing involved in the time you spend together, but you can also be serious. You can just be yourself with the comfort of knowing that's what the other person loves the most, that's true love.

If you ignore me, I won't wait around. I won't bug you, I just won't talk to you, simple as that. Sure it's going to be hard, but it won't hurt as much as being ignored. I deserve better than that. I'll move on and find someone who actually cares about me because obviously, you don't. If you continually treat me like crap what reason do I have to stay?

At least respect me enough to tell me what's up. If you don't want to talk to me, just tell me. If I'm getting on your nerves, just let me know. If you're losing feelings, don't keep me waiting just to lead me on or play me. I at least deserve to know. So instead of keeping things to yourself, just be straight up and honest with me so I don't have to sit around looking stupid.

Some men can be so toxic to your health. They don't want to love you properly but don't want to let go of you either. The more you give the less they appreciate, and the minute you've had enough and decide to walk away is when they are ready to love you and treat you right. So you give them a chance in hopes that they've changed only to realize it was all fake. You find the strength to walk away once more and here he comes proclaiming his love for you and you give in again. The cycle repeats itself until you gather up enough strength to say enough is enough and really cut him out of your life.

She's not gonna be the easiest girl to love. You will probably gonna go through hell with her. Her insecurities are ridiculous. She has a lot of expectations. Her trust issues are too much. Her anger issues are scary. Her logic doesn't make any sense at times. She indecisive. Just to let you know right now, she's gonna cause a lot of problems, she's gonna get jealous often, and she's gonna over-analyze, over-exaggerate, and over-think every situation there is. There will be times you'll find her weird, there will be times you'll find her immature, and there will be times that she's so complicated. You will be annoyed. You will be frustrated, and you're gonna feel like giving up on her. But despite all of her flaws, she has such a big heart. If you can stick with her through all of the challenges she'll give you, then she'll make sure it's worth it.

A simple talk can save millions of relationships in this world. Only if both sides will be open to make things right.

A relationship is like a house. When a lightbulb burns out you do not go and buy a new house, you fix the light bulb.

You can't save a relationship unless both people are equally invested. It takes a joint effort to make it work. One person trying will never be enough. ~Tony Gaskin

Communication to a relationship is like oxygen to life. Without it...it dies.

The actual fix is usually just a matter of working with your partner to find the solutions and compromises that will allow you to work around the problem.

You can’t just give up on someone because the situation is not ideal. Great relationships are not great because they have no problems. They are great because both people care enough about the other person to find a way to make it work.

There's no challenge strong enough to destroy your marriage as long as you're both willing to fight for each other. ~Dave Willis

All relationships go through hell, real ones get through it.

Don't ever stop dating your wife, and don't ever stop flirting with your husband.

Every relationship has its problems, but what makes it perfect is if you still want to be together when things go wrong.

How does it feel to have a long relationship? It must be like a roller coaster which you can feel from sad to happy or even emotionless when you have to realize that you are in a dot of boredom. How could a couple get bored with each other? Losing feeling can be due to many reasons, but most of them appear because of lack of communication. One partner feels that they have their own lives and should accomplish their work. Another partner feels that they are not the priority anymore so they feel being ignored. Communication is the real key to long lasting relationship. How partner delivers the message, how partner maintain the communication are just the simple example to keep your relationship in a harmony. What should you do when it’s all done and that boredom does come, but you still think that you still need to keep your relationship?

· Challenge yourself

When you think that you are not into your relationship but you still have the urge to go back to the good old days when you share love together with your partner, start the challenge. What is the challenge? Lack of communication can be two. The first is that you are busy, and the second is that you don’t care about your partner’s activity because you don’t like it. Remember when you said that you will accept and appreciate to anything your partner does with their lives. If you don’t like it, you may accompany your partner even you may find it bored, stay with it.

· Reminisce the good things

Get angry often to your partner and keep pushing away from yourself out from your relationship? Wait, don’t get a rush and decide the worse thing. Reminisce all the good things that you have done with your partner. Recall your memories to your partner’s positive trait to you. The best thing to rekindle your relationship is to always remember happiness you used to share with your partner.

· Feel free to ask

When it has come to worse boredom, ask your commitment and your partner’s commitment. Never be scared of something you don’t try. Feel free to ask what they want, what they want to do with this relationship and show your will that you still want to go together.

· Give attention more than before

The best way to rekindle love is by giving more attention. Try to be honest to your care and attention and keep it until your partner feels that you are being serious to rebirth your relationship. You also need to enhance your communication because it is a form of giving best attentions too.

· Discuss the better solution

Mutual feeling is important. Thus, when there is no mutual feeling, that’s dangerous. You have to discuss the better solution. So, you can get your relationship back in your heart.

Recommendation For You

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Date someone who is interested in you. I don’t mean someone who thinks you’re cute or funny. I mean someone who wants to know every insignificant detail about you. Someone who wants to read every word you write. Someone who wants hear every note of your favorite song, and watch every scene of your favorite movie. Someone wants to find every scar upon your body, and learn where each one came from. Someone who wants to know your favorite brand of toothpaste, and which quotes resonate deep inside your bones when you hear them. There is a difference between attraction and interest. Find the person who wants to learn every aspect of who you are, and hold onto them.

Date someone who is a home and an adventure all at once.

The article below is written by Rania Naim via thoughtcatalog

Date someone who is looking for more than looks. Date someone who wants to know more about you as a person, as a human being, someone who wants to know your story, someone who is interested in deep conversations because there are so many people out there who will pretend to be all those things for a few dates before their true intentions come to light, because deep inside, they don’t care about your story, they’re only interested in theirs. They’re only interested in what they want now, they only want quantity.

Date someone who is not afraid of minor challenges. Someone who doesn’t run away even if they have other options. Someone who doesn’t keep you at the bottom of their list because of something you said or something you did. Date someone who wants you enough to try a little harder, someone who communicates instead of dodging the issue, someone who chooses to talk to you and understand your differences instead of giving up because it’s easier and because someone else might embody their idea of perfect.

Date someone who thinks you’re their idea of perfect with imperfections. Someone who sees your heart and how much it’s been through, someone who is also bruised but still believes in love. Someone who has been guarded but was waiting for someone like you to break down their walls. Date someone who wants to be patient with you. Someone who stays when you expect them to leave. Someone who doesn’t lead you on because they were genuine about you from the moment they saw you. Someone who doesn’t confuse you because they’re sure about you.

Date someone who’s looking for quality because that’s the only way they’ll appreciate you, that’s the only way they’ll understand what you truly have to offer.Anyone else will only like you under certain conditions; like when you’re looking your best, or when you make a certain amount of money or when you dress in a certain way or speak in a certain manner. They’ll make you feel like you’re always lacking something or competing with all their admirers.

Date someone who’s looking for quality because they’ll always look for the things that other people don’t see in you, the things that matter and your inner beauty. Date someone who makes you feel beautiful when everyone else makes you feel invisible.

Staying in a bad relationship is not poetic or beautiful. Staying with someone who hurts you or does not appreciate you is not romantic or beautiful.

What is beautiful is moving on and focusing on yourself. On loving who you are, regardless of
how other people see you. There is no flower brighter than the first to bloom after a harsh winter.

A secure man will never try to break you down for any reason. Instead, he'll take every opportunity to support and encourage you. He understands the strength of the relationship is found in the union and not the individual. A strong man and a strong woman create a strong union. If one or the other is weak, the relationship suffers. In other words, if you feel a man is working to tear you down, walk away. You can't build something with someone whose intent is only to tear you down...it will never work.

Reflections Of A Man by Mr. Amari Soul

A Gentleman knows when to listen, when to comment and when to simply hold his woman and kiss her tears away.