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Sometimes you just have to turn the page


Sometimes you just have to turn the page to realize there is more to your book of life than the page you are stuck on. Stop being afraid to move on. Close this chapter of hurt, and never re-read it again. It is time to get what your life deserves, and move on from the things that do not deserve you. Do not spend your days trying to correct your past, instead let go and let God create something better for your future.

Sometimes you don’t feel the weight of something you’ve been carrying


Sometimes you don’t feel the weight of something you’ve been carrying until you feel the weight of its release.

One of the best feelings is finally losing feelings


One of the best feelings is finally losing feelings and your attachment to somebody that isn't good for you.

Sometimes we're so focused on finding our happy ending


But sometimes we're so focused on finding our happy ending we don't learn how to read the signs. How to tell from the ones who want us and the ones who don't, the ones who will stay and the ones who will leave. And maybe a happy ending doesn't include a guy, maybe... it's you, on your own, picking up the pieces and starting over, freeing yourself up for something better in the future. Maybe the happy ending is... just... moving on. Or maybe the happy ending is this, knowing after all the unreturned phone calls, broken-hearts, through the blunders and misread signals, through all the pain and embarrassment you never gave up hope.

He's Just Not That Into You

If you ignore me, I won't wait around.


If you ignore me, I won't wait around. I won't bug you, I just won't talk to you, simple as that. Sure it's going to be hard, but it won't hurt as much as being ignored. I deserve better than that. I'll move on and find someone who actually cares about me because obviously, you don't. If you continually treat me like crap what reason do I have to stay?

What’s done is done. What’s gone is gone.


What’s done is done. What’s gone is gone. One of life’s lessons is learning how to move on. It’s okay to look back and think of fond memories but never stop moving forward.

Staying in a bad relationship is not poetic or beautiful.


Staying in a bad relationship is not poetic or beautiful. Staying with someone who hurts you or does not appreciate you is not romantic or beautiful.

What is beautiful is moving on and focusing on yourself. On loving who you are, regardless of
how other people see you. There is no flower brighter than the first to bloom after a harsh winter.

After a while, I got tired of chasing after you.



After a while, I got tired of chasing after you. You made things so hard that I could never catch up. I was trying to force something that just wasn't there. It felt like I was begging for you to reciprocate the love I was giving, when in reality, you just never felt the same way I did. That's when it clicked, I could no longer beg for you to love me or give me the attention that I desired. So I took myself out of the equation, closed that chapter of my life and started a new one. It was time for me to find the true love of my life that I had lost in the process of loving you...myself!

M.Sosa

10 Signs You Need To Let Go Of Your Relationship



Here are ten signs it’s time to let go:


1- Someone expects you to be someone you’re not. 
Don’t change who you are for anyone else. It’s wiser to lose someone over being who you are than to keep them by being someone you’re not. Because it’s easier to mend a broken heart than it is to piece together a shattered identity. It’s easier to fill an empty space in your life where someone else used to be than it is to fill the empty space inside yourself where YOU used to be.

2- A person’s actions don’t match their words.
Everybody deserves somebody who helps them look forward to tomorrow. If someone has the opposite effect on you, because they are consistently inconsistent and their actions don’t match up with their words, it’s time to let them go. It’s always better to be alone than to be in bad company. True friendship is a promise made in the heart – silent, unwritten, unbreakable by distance, and unchangeable by time. Don’t listen to what people say; watch what they do. Your true friends will slowly reveal themselves over time.

3- You catch yourself forcing someone to love you.  
Let us keep in mind that we can’t force anyone to love us. We shouldn’t beg someone to stay when they want to leave. That’s what love is all about – freedom. However, the end of love is not the end of life. It should be the beginning of an understanding that love sometimes leaves for a reason, but never leaves without a lesson. If someone truly loves you, they will never give you a reason to doubt it. Anyone can come into your life and say how much they love you, but it takes someone really special to stay in your life and prove how much they love you. Sometimes it takes awhile to find the right person, but the right person is always worth the wait.

4- An intimate relationship is based strictly on physical attraction.  
Being beautiful is more than how many people you can get to look at you, or how others perceive you at a single glance. It’s about what you live for. It’s about what defines you. It’s about the depth of your heart, and what makes you unique. It’s about being who you are and living out your life honestly. It’s about those little quirks that make you, you. People who are only attracted to you because of your pretty face or nice body won’t stay by your side forever. But the people who can see how beautiful your heart is will never leave you.


5- Someone continuously breaks your trust.  
Love means giving someone the chance to hurt you but trusting them not to. When you completely trust a person, without any doubt, you’ll automatically get one of two results – a FRIEND for life or a LESSON for life. Either way, there’s a positive outcome. Either you confirm the fact that this person
cares about you, or you get the opportunity to weed them out of your life and make room for those who do. In the end, you’ll discover who’s fake, who’s true, and who would risk it all for you. And trust me, some people will totally surprise you.

6- Someone continuously overlooks your worth. 
When you give yourself to someone who doesn’t respect you, you surrender pieces of your soul that you’ll never get back. There comes a point when you have to let go and stop chasing some people. If someone wants you in their life, they’ll find a way to put you there. Sometimes you just need to let go and accept the fact that they don’t care for you the way you care for them. Let them leave your life quietly. Letting go is oftentimes easier than holding on. We think it’s too hard to let go until we actually do. Then we ask ourselves, “Why didn’t I do this sooner?”

7- You are never given a chance to speak your mind.
Sometimes an argument saves a relationship, whereas silence breaks it. Speak up for your heart so that you won’t have regrets. Life is not about making others happy. Life is about being honest and sharing your happiness with others.

8- You are frequently forced to sacrifice your happiness.
If you allow people to make more withdrawals than deposits in your life, you will be out of balance and in the negative before you know it. Know when to close the account. It’s always better to be alone with dignity than in a relationship that constantly requires you to sacrifice your happiness and self-respect.


9- You truly dislike your current situation, routine, job, etc.  
It’s better to be a failure at something you love than to succeed at doing something you hate. Don’t let someone who gave up on their dreams talk you out of going after yours. The best thing you can do in life is to follow your heart. Take risks. Don’t just make the safe and easy choices because you’re afraid of what might happen. If you do, nothing will ever happen. Chances must be taken, mistakes must be made, and lessons must be learned. It might be an uphill climb, but when you reach that mountaintop it will be worth every ounce of blood, sweat and tears you put into it.

10- You catch yourself obsessing over, and living in, the past.  
Eventually you will overcome the heartache, and forget the reasons you cried, and who caused the pain. Eventually, you will realize that the secret to happiness and freedom is not about control or revenge, but in letting things unfold naturally, and learning from your experiences over the course of time. After all, what matters most is not the first, but the final chapter of your life, which unveils the details of how well you wrote your story. So let go of the past, set yourself free, and open your mind to the possibility of new relationships and priceless experiences.

When I read this post it gave me the reflection on what should I do. I have not made any decision yet but I have some insight that I keep in mind. It is not only for my current relationship but also for the other aspect of my life.

source : sidehearts.wordpress.com

20 best motivational quotes for moving on after a break up.



When a relationship is over, leave. Don't continue watering a dead flower.


Even if it ends badly, it's worth it. If it made you feel something, it taught you something.


Don't cry over the past, it's gone. Don't stress about the future, it hasn't arrived. Live in the present and make it beautiful.


Breakups hurt, but losing someone who doesn't respect you is actually a gain, not a loss.


He's gonna be so sorry he lost you, so stop worrying. Forget the past, forget the pain, and remember what an incredible woman you are.


I think the hardest part of losing someone isn't having to say goodbye, but rather learning to live without them. Always trying to fill the emptiness that’s left inside your heart when they go.


Remember that sometimes not getting what you want is a wonderful stroke of luck.
Dalai Lama


It's not the breakup that hurts most..it's the post trauma that follows it. It's waking up and checking up your cell phone for the message that isn't there..it's like starting your life over again and you have no idea where to begin..


Crying over a guy? Nah, pick your head up princess. Your tiara is falling.


There's going to come a time when you learn to be heartless, only to protect yourself.


It might hurt to walk away but that will never compare to the pain of staying. Don't let fear of being alone keep you in a relationship where you are alone.

Relationships are like glass. Sometimes it's better to leave them broken than hurt yourself trying to put it back together.

After a break up, the loyal one stays single and deals with the damages until healed. The other one is already in another relationship.

Never get jealous when you see your ex with someone else, because our parents taught us to give our used toys to the less fortunate.

The people that are quick to walk away are the ones who never intended to say.

Don't feel sad over someone who gave up on you feel sorry for them because they gave up on someone who would have never given up on them.

Just because something ends doesn't mean it never should've been. Remember, you lived, you learned, you grew and you moved on.

Eventually, you'll end up where you need to be, with who you're meant to be with, and doing what you should be doing.

And maybe, for now, a happy ending doesn’t include a relationship. Maybe it’s you, on your own,
picking up the pieces and starting over, freeing yourself up for something better in the future. Maybe the happy ending is just moving on.

Cry. Forgive. Learn. Move on. Let your tears water the seeds of your future happiness.- Steve Maraboli

Let it hurt. Let it bleed. Let it heal. And let it go. —Nikita Gill


Read more things to never do after a break up here: eharmony.com

10 Best Quotes about people come and go








People come, people go – they’ll drift in and out of your life, almost like characters in a favorite book. When you finally close the cover, the characters have told their story and you start up again with another book, complete with new characters and adventures. Then you find yourself focusing on the new ones, not the ones from the past. - Nicholas Sparks

People come and go, but life is simply about seeing who cares enough to stay.

No matter what is going on in your life today, remember, it is only preparation. People come and go; situations rise and fall; it’s all preparation for better things. You must stretch, reach, grow into your goodness. Without the preparation we receive through adversity, disappointment, confusion, or pain, we could not appreciate the goodness when it arrives. -Iyanla Vanzant

People come and go, pain comes and goes. But so does joy. And if our hearts are closed because we don't want to suffer, they won't be open enough to recognize the joy as it flies by. -Geneen Roth

Letting go means to come to the realization that some people are a part of your history, but not a part of your destiny.

Some people come into your life just to teach you how to let go.

People come and go. Everyone that's been in your life has been there for a reason, to teach you, to love you, or to experience life with you.

Nobody is worth stressing over. People come and go. Move on and go find yourself, the world is yours. Life goes on. 

People come into your life and go, but you will always have to live with yourself. Make yourself pleasant, positive, and peaceful. -Akin Olokun

People come and go in your life, but the right ones will always stay.

Never beg someone to love or be with you.


Never beg someone to love or be with you, because when you do, you give them the power to use and walk all over you. When someone truly loves you, their actions will show and prove it to you, and you will never have to convince or beg them to love or be with you.

Never beg to be loved.

Don't try to force things with him, you can't force consistency. You can't force attention. You cant force effort. You can't force chemistry. You can't force understanding. You can't force patience. You can't force honestly. You can't force loyalty. You can't force commitment. You can't force a connection. The love that used to be there is no longer there and it hasn't been for awhile and as much as you want it back. You can't force it to happen because by forcing it, you're only making things worse. You are actually forcing other things to happen. You are only driving him further away you. You are only causing more distance between you two. You are only building more resentment towards one another. You are only giving more reasons not to care. You are only showing him how controlling you can be. You are only implying how desperate you are. Don't do that to him, but more importantly, don't do that to yourself. To you, you are fighting to make things work and to save the relationship, but the truth is you are only disappointing yourself when things don't meet the expectations you've set and that'll only hurt you more. Please, don't hurt yourself for someone who genuinely wouldn't affected to deeply if it were to end because it isn't worth and it stopped being worth it awhile ago and deep down, you know it did. He may love you enough to stay with you, but he doesn't love you enough to make you feel loved everyday anymore. And that's not someone you should waste anymore of yourself with. So, stop forcing love because it's either there or it isn't and if it isn't, you shouldn't be either. -Mfundo Lujiva


Never beg for love. Never beg someone to love you back or be with you when you want to. Never beg for someone’s time, commitment, affection and attention. Never beg someone to stay with you when you need him the most. Because in the first place, if he loves you that much, he won’t leave you and let go of your hand. He will never let you beg for his presence and love because he will give it to you with open arms. Don’t beg, it’s demeaning and degrading. Remember, if you have to beg, he’s not worth it. No one is worth begging for. -baekebyan


Never beg people to stay against their will. Sometimes the gift of goodbye opens another door for you. Move on, and create the next chapter of your life.

Never beg for a relationship. Be brave to accept the one who really wants to be with you and reject the one who just pretends to be with you.

Never for no reason beg someone to be your comrade or lover. if he or she doesn't see your value, peacefully move on to someone who will.

I’m happy that you’re happy



I’m happy that you’re happy… really I am. You’ve moved on with your life… things are falling into place for you… And even though it meant letting me go in the process, I’m glad you found happiness. Sometimes I even have moments in my own life where I’m happy too… But it doesn’t mean I don’t still wish things were different…It doesn’t mean I don’t wish we could have been happy together.

Ranata Suzuki

It happens to everyone as they grow up. You find out who you are and what you want..



It happens to everyone as they grow up. You find out who you are and what you want, and then you realize that people you’ve known forever don’t see things the way you do. So you keep the wonderful memories, but find yourself moving on.

Nicholas Sparks

Some people wear their pain like a suit of armor.




Some people wear their pain like a suit of armor. Every time you hurt them it adds another layer to their outer shell and makes their defenses more impenetrable. They may valiantly deflect your words and actions with their assertive body language - but their eyes will speak the truth… it’s the only part of their true selves they cannot hide beneath their steely resolve to stand strong no matter what you throw at them.

These people are gentle warriors – they defend but never attack. But their downfall is the more layers they add, the heavier it becomes until it weighs them down so much they cannot move forward any more.

And this is the only time they’ll raise their sword… not to cut you down… but to simply cut you out of their life completely so they can move on…

Author : Ranata Suzuki

Many people don't know this...


Many people don't know this, but it's possible to read something you don't agree with on the internet and simply move on with your life.

Life is too short to argue and fight.


Life is too short to argue and fight. Count your blessings, value your love ones and move on with your head held high and a smile for everyone.

It takes a lot more courage to let something go than it does to hang on to it.


It takes a lot more courage to let something go than it does to hang on to it, trying to make it better. Letting go doesn't mean ignoring a situation. Letting go means accepting what is, exactly as it is, without fear, resistance, or a struggle for control. ~Iyanla Vanzant

and then she never felt anything again.


And then she told herself, “Stop being so weak. Grow up and get over it.” and then she never felt anything again.




Life is too short to argue and fight with the past.


Life is too short to argue and fight with the past. Count your blessings, value your love ones, and move on with your head held high. ~unknown

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