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Be happy. Be who you want to be.



Be happy. Be who you want to be. If others don't like it, then let them be. Happiness is a choice. Life isn't about pleasing everybody.

Choose your relationships wisely.


Choose your relationships wisely. Being alone will never cause as much loneliness as being in the wrong relationship.

You either get bitter or you get better.


You either get bitter or you get better. It’s that simple. You either take what has been dealt to you and allow it to make you a better person, or you allow it to tear you down. The choice does not belong to fate, it belongs to you. ~Josh Shipp

Every test in our life makes us bitter or better.


Every test in our life makes us bitter or better, every problem comes to break us or make us.
The choice is ours whether we become victim or victor!

I choose to live by choice, not by chance


I choose to live by choice, not by chance; to make changes, not excuses; to be motivated and not manipulated; to be useful, not used. I choose self-esteem, not self-pity; to listen to my inner voice, not the random opinions of others. ~unknown

When you wake up every day, you have two choices.



When you wake up every day, you have two choices. You can either be positive or negative; an optimist or a pessimist. I choose to be an optimist. It's all a matter of perspective.

~Harvey Mackay

The choice is yours.


Time will pass anyway, you can either spend it creating the life you want or spend it living the life you don't want. The choice is yours. ~unknown

Living with integrity.


Living with integrity means: Not settling for less than what you know you deserve in your relationships. Asking for what you want and need from others. Speaking your truth, even though it might create conflict or tension. Behaving in ways that are in harmony with your personal values. Making choices based on what you believe, and not what others believe.― 

 Barbara De Angelis


Being a woman is a matter of age. But being a lady is a matter of choice.


Be with those who help your being. ~Rumi


There are the dreamers and the doers, the believers and the thinkers.
There is family and there are relatives, friends and acquaintances.
Yet there is one thing they all have in common.
Each has the ability to change, like the seasons.

Surround yourself with those who recognize the value within you, all year-around.
Choose to be with those who require you to grow, be with those who help your being.
- boos & besito, Ari

Take me as i am.


I might not be someone's first choice, but I am a great choice. I may not be rich but I am valuable. i don't pretend to be someone i'm not, because i'm good at being me. I might not be proud of some of the things i've done in the past, but i am proud of who i am today. I may not be perfect but i don’t need to be. Take me as I am, or watch me as I walk away. ~unknown

When i give...


When I give, it does not come with strings. I’m not keeping track of what you owe me. When I give, I choose to do so without ulterior motives. I give because I’m genuine. I give because I know what it’s like to be without. To long for and be ignored. To speak and not be heard. To care for and have nothing returned. When I give it’s because I get it. It’s because I know the value in what I have in my heart and I refuse to let the world stop me from sharing that. But when things start being taken for granted. When you no longer appreciate my sincerity. I won’t switch, I won’t get angry, and I won’t be spiteful. I’ll just get smart and I’ll change your role in my life. Because when I give, I’m all in. But when I’m done, there’s no looking back. ~ Rob Hill Sr.

I exist, and therefore I matter. My thoughts matter. My feelings matter. My voice matters.


Most of my life has been spent trying to shrink myself. Trying to become smaller. Quieter. Less sensitive. Less opinionated. Less needy. Because I didn’t want to be a burden. I didn’t want to be too much or push people away. I wanted people to like me. I wanted to be cared for and valued. I wanted to be wanted. So for years, I sacrificed myself for the sake of making other people happy. And for years, I suffered. But I’m tired of suffering, and I’m done shrinking. It’s not my job to change who I am in order to become someone else’s idea of a worthwhile human being. I am worthwhile. Not because other people think I am, but because I exist, and therefore I matter. My thoughts matter. My feelings matter. My voice matters. And with or without anyone’s permission or approval, I will continue to be who I am and speak my truth. Even if it makes people angry. Even if it makes them uncomfortable. Even if they choose to leave. I refuse to shrink. I choose to take up space. I choose honor my feelings. I choose to give myself permission to get my needs met. I choose me. ~Daniell Keopke.

Either feel sorry for yourself or treat what has happened as a gift.


With everything that has happened to you, you can either feel sorry for yourself or treat what has happened as a gift. Everything is either an opportunity to grow or an obstacle to keep you from growing. You get to choose. ~Wayne Dyer

You are free to choose, but you are not free from the consequence of your choice.


You are not a bad person



You're not a bad person. You're a very good person, who bad things have happened to. Besides, the world isn't split into good people and Death Eaters. We've all got both light and dark inside us. What matters is the part we choose to act on. That's who we really are. ~Sirius Black - Harry Potter And The Order Of The Phoenix


Everyone makes mistakes in life, but that doesn’t mean they have to pay for them the rest of their life.


Everyone makes mistakes in life, but that doesn’t mean they have to pay for them the rest of their life. Sometimes good people make bad choices. It doesn’t mean they are bad. It means they are human. ~unknown

You can’t force loyalty, some people will always let you down.


You can’t force loyalty, some people will always let you down. Everybody won’t always be who you want them to be. I’m never perfect, but i’m always genuine, and i’ve realized… People are consistent with who they want to be consistent with. They’re true to who they want to be true to. They’re loyal to who they want to be loyal to. It’s all about choices… So in my life, every excuse just gets you closer to an exit. And it’s no love lost, i just choose not to waste my time with the games… We can be cool, we just can’t be close."

Author: Rob Hill Sr.

In the end you can’t always choose what to keep. You can only choose how you let it go.



Ally Condie --Crossed

I'm not a backup plan and definitely not a second choice.


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